ve fetişler:
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Your enthusiastic, ongoing consent is critically important to me, and your No will be respected (unless negotiated otherwise).
In light of the Neil Gaimon allegations and various other horrific stories I've encountered in my time on the internet, or even just in this past week, I feel compelled to say: the foundation of all BDSM/kink play is safety, enthusiastic consent, and negotiation. Anything else is abuse.
Please never engage in any kink activity without thoroughly researching the potential physical and psychological dangers of that activity, talking about it lots beforehand, and knowing for absolute certain that this is something both you and your partner really want to try. A weak "okay," after multiple requests / pressure to do something is not consent. "Ugh, fine," means NO. "Maybe later" means NO.
Porn is not sexual education. Read books, join actually kink communities, google how to do a proper BDSM negotiation.
Be excellent to each other. <3
